Do your actions align with the convictions in your heart and mind? Do you walk your talk? Do you drink water while preaching the same water? These questions can be daunting when we genuinely examine our hearts. In this post, I want to focus on …
A Guide to Sexual Desire for the Single Woman
This post was originally published on africa.thegospelcoalition.org There are many wonders in the world that leave us astounded. Among those fascinating and awesome wonders is how God created the human body; how he wired it to operate. It’s a wonder of wonders. Specifically, I find …
New Year, New You? Resolutions Won’t Do
This post was originally published on africa.thegospelcoalition.org Once a year an eagle goes through the process of moulting. Through that process the eagle loses its old feathers and new ones grow in their place. Much in the same way, as the year begins we imagine …
Will I Be Single Forever?
This post was originally published on africa.thegospelcoalition.org Hanging around singles changes with the years. As you climb the age ladder, there is an unspoken question that lingers in most singles’ minds. This question becomes harder to ignore the older you get. It’s a question that sparks …
Dating? Consider Pre-Engagement Counselling
This post was originally published on africa.thegospelcoalition.org “She said yes!” The reaction to these words can range from tears of joy to exuberant rejoicing and usually an abundance of congratulatory messages. Then, attention quickly shifts to wedding plans; parent introduction meetings; and, if you’re in …
10 Mistakes I Made in Biblical Counselling
This post was originally published on africa.thegospelcoalition.org I enjoy listening to people, especially in their suffering, trials, and struggles with sin. My heart is moved to encourage them in those moments to behold Christ. On the flip side, I process my own trials by talking …
There Is Life Beyond Your Break-Up
This post was originally published on The Gospel Coalition Africa. I was very excited as I sent him a voice note, telling him about the milestone I’d achieved. As always, I expected “happy for you babe.” This particular day, however, was different. He wanted us …